Why a Writer Needs Relationships

by DiAnn Mills

Writers spend hours perfecting their manuscripts. The time, sweat, and tears that go into a remarkable writing project can’t be measured when our ability to create is always working. We live and breathe the words filling our mind and transfer them onto the page.

Some say writing is an isolated profession, and the process appears solitary until we consider what all we need to be successful. Take a look at the following 7 reasons writing is a “we” project and not an “I” endeavor.

  1. Cheerleaders

A writer may dream of putting words on paper. Even forge ahead in secret. But she may never reveal her desire and passion for writerly expression because of the fear of rejection.

We all need cheerleader relationships, the person or persons whom we trust to share our hearts. A cheerleader encourages and gives us pep-talks that spur us on and keep us accountable. Look around for a family member or friend who loves you unconditionally to fill this critical role.

  1. Critique Partners

We need other eyes to examine our work to see what we’ve missed to perfect the project. Finding the right critique group involves attending a few meetings and listening to what is being said. Some critique groups meet online, and others prefer face-to-face. Are the members respectful, courteous, offer suggestions that enhance the writing? Do they balance their comments in what is good and what might be an improvement? Be prepared to reciprocate with the same feedback.

And remember dear writer, a critique partner is not your mom who loves you no matter what you write.

  1. Editors

Determined writers seek editor relationships. Our writing projects need polishing. The manuscript may have gone through the test of critiques, and you may believe it’s ready to submit to an agent or publishing house but pause before hitting Send. We want to offer our best, which often means reaching out to an editor for professional feedback. Understand anyone can claim to be an editor, even slap it onto a website, so beware. A savvy writer looks for recommendations and investigates writers who have hired a good editor in the past. Most editors specialize in content, grammar, line, and/or substantive edits. Spend time with the potential person to see if this is the right fit for you. Examine the costs to ensure you’re receiving the quality you deserve.

  1. Agent

An agent is a valuable asset for any writer who is interested in working with a traditional publishing house. This is another opportunity for the writer to request recommendations, interview the potential agent, and decide if he/she is a good fit. An author/agent relationship is one of the most powerful tools in the publishing industry.

  1. Marketing and Promotion Experts

Launching a book successfully means the writer needs experts to advise him/her on the best means to brand, market, and promote the book.

For a traditionally published book, marketing and promotion experts are usually in-house. These relationships are an opportunity for all to work together to prevent overlapping. But the writer needs to learn these skills too.

If a book is being independently published, seek professionals in this field to enhance the best process to introduce your project to the world.

  1. Dream Team

I refer to my street team as a Dream Team. These wonderful people are my year around friends. My suggestion is to touch base with your team weekly online. I use a weekly email. When book launch time approaches, a quality Dream Team assists the writing by promoting a book in his/her community of influence. To assist this team to be the most effective, the writer creates Facebook posts, Tweets, memes, book reviews, book cover—whatever is needed. Many writers offer contests or random drawings as perks for their team.

  1. Readers

Writers create for their readers. We want to present them with quality fiction or nonfiction that meets their expectations. Through social media, we are able to establish lasting relationships. Let your readers know they are appreciated.

In summary, writers who understand the value of developing relationships that are personal and professional will reach their goals. What are some ways you have maintained relationships within your writing community?

If you’d like to be entered in a book giveaway for Burden of Proof, be sure to comment!

About the author…

DiAnn Mills is a bestselling author who believes her readers should expect an adventure. She creates action-packed, suspense-filled novels to thrill readers. Her titles have appeared on the CBA and ECPA bestseller lists; won two Christy Awards; and been finalists for the RITA, Daphne Du Maurier, Inspirational Readers’ Choice, and Carol award contests.

She is co-director of the Blue Ridge Mountains Christian Writer’s Conference and Mountainside Marketing Conference. Connect with DiAnn here: DiAnnMills.com  Instagram Goodreads

[Editor’s Note: I think Burden of Proof is one of DiAnn Mills’ best novels ever. The tension, the characters, the stakes, the story take a grip on your heart and never let go.]

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5 thoughts on “Why a Writer Needs Relationships”

  1. Pingback: Writing and the Principles of Sowing and Reaping | Authors Community

  2. SOOO so important to have relationships and with fellow writers. We boost each other, we laugh at our tendencies to hermitage, we get inspiration and encouragement.
    Thanks to AC we can do all these things, especially if we’re shut in or live far from anyone except via internet.
    Thanks for flagging up so many benefits to connecting.

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